UNDERSTAND THE PRIMARY NEEDS OF EACH GENDER

One of the primary need of a woman is AFFECTION while for men, it is SEX. Each usually misunderstands what the other needs primarily and tries to fulfill his or her partner with their own primary need.
Therein lies the conflicts of companionship of all ages. Learn the difference and you create a miraculous peace in your relationship and marriage today.
If you know the difference between the two and know how to meet your partner's need, you create a new era in your marriage and relationship that will last a lifetime.
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WANNA IMPORT MONEY?

Would you like to import money? Well, we are not talking of money laundering here! You know as well as I do that, it's a crime. Now, the truth of the matter is that as much as making money is good, one should do it with peace of mind. Why make money and at the end, you spend it running away from the long arms of the law. I don't think that makes sense! There is nothing like making genuine money with peace of mind along with it.

Okay, what I mean by importing money, is simply mini-importation. Yes, how to import items into the country legally. I am talking about items that are needed in the country and which are not prohibited by law. There are so many things that people need that you can import into the country at unbelievably low cost, which you can sell at reasonable profits on wholesale and retail basis and smile from ear to ear to the bank.

This seminar comes up in Benin City, Edo State in Nigeria. It will be organized by CherryBrooks Limited. A front line internet marketing company in Nigeria. Gosh! These guys are good. I attended their internet income making seminar last month and i tell you, i am yet to recover from the massive impact it made on me. I encourage you to make it a date with them this September. It will be explosive!

The powerful CherryBrooks Mini importation seminar comes up live in Benin City, Edo State, Nigeria on the 26th of Sept 2015.
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CULTURE IN THE 21st CENTURY

Is culture still relevant in the 21st Century? How does it affect our mental health? How is Culture related to today's politics and religion? How can we use its power to better our society? All these and many other questions and issues will be addressed in the insightful forthcoming seminar to be hosted by NAME FOUNDATION in Benin City, Nigeria on the 24th of September, 2015 at Youth House.
Speakers include Rev Nosa, Rev Olu-Martins and Dr Edugbo.
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September Edition of Men of Honor

Please make time this morning to attend Men of Honour's breakfast meeting. Starting by 7am, it promises to be a great time as International Life Coach , Rev Ben Akhigbe II, will be sharing with us in a variety stimulating meeting.
Invite your friends!

DEVELOPING WEALTH CONSCIOUSNESS

For some time to come we will be looking at core concepts and ideas that can help us make a mind-shift from lack and want thinking to wealthy thinking.
Everything starts in our thoughts. If you look at creation, before God said "let us make man", man existed in His thoughts, so to speak. God had a clear picture of what He wanted to create before He created it. However, He spoke what He had seen on the inside, then He went ahead to do what He needed to do to bring His thoughts into material manifestation. It's all about following principles and we can get predictable results.
Okay, so the first idea (please these are not presented in any sequential order, they are altogether relevant to wealth consciousness development) is this:

#1. Wealth Is Not Money
Okay, am sure you are wondering what that means. Well, it means just what is stated. Wealth is not money. Wealth is actually nothing tangible. It is not something you can touch with your physical hands. What then is wealth, you may ask. Wealth is...

#2. Wealth is Thoughts
Yes, thoughts. Wealth is thoughts. Before you see the physical signs of wealth, wealth is first a perpetual thinking. It's a mindset. It's a consciousness. You cannot think lack and insufficiency and have ideas that can launch you into physical substance. You must "see" wealth, consistently before it "becomes" physical reality.

#3. Being Broke Does Not Mean Being Poor.
Yes, being Broke is a state of your pocket. Being Poor is a state of your mind. Being broke is temporary, but Being poor is permanent! There is nothing wrong to be Broke, but it should be temporary, for awhile. However, Staying broke means that person is poor and poverty is a state of mind. A Broke man only needs to take certain steps and actions and after awhile, you won't see him in that state!

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To Be Continued...

GOING FOR FINANCIAL LIBERTY

Hello Friends, o

ne of the most exasperating experiences for a man, is to be broke. At its most basic level, not having cash to carry out basic things that you need for your daily activities can be frustrating, very, very frustrating. My heart really goes out to guys. Now, money is not everything. While it is wrong to build your self-image or confidence on money or on material things, however, your self-image and confidence can be greatly enhanced when you do have some coins in your pocket! You know what I mean! I have been there. I have been broke several times and I know how it feels - seriously! The truth however is, being broke is a state that may or may not be due to your fault but STAYING broke is your choice! As for me and my house, we will not stay broke. Anyway, because of my previous experiences,my key passion is in how to help men become maximized in all spheres of their lives and I do know financial enhancement can be a great boost to a man. I have been on the search for materials that can help men get back on track to financial empowerment and I believe you can get a good start from here http://www.nairacashflow.com/edugbo/ Do Have a great week!

WHEN MEN PRAY

Some men will talk about anything and everything except Prayer. From girls to their garage to the government to alcohol, conversations flow freely, but who talks about Prayer? Prayer is a fundamental component of a man's life. Man was built first and foremost for fellowship with God, not with woman. The woman came on the scene later! Now, don't get me wrong here, am not saying the woman is not important, they sure do have their place.

Did you know that Adam did not know he needed a help meet until God brought forth the woman. When you are in true fellowship with God, He brings what you need to help you fulfill your place on the earth! Stop struggling, start staying in His presence! The key to your progressive fulfillment is in your continual stay in His presence.

There is power in the coming together of two. Why not start a Prayer Duo. A Prayer Duo is simply two persons coming together just to pray for at least one hour. In this case, two men. If men begin to find the time to pray with at least one other man, say at least once a week, you will begin to see the impact in your personal life and neighborhood.
Imagine telling your wife, you need to be in church or wherever you have planned to meet for prayers, just to pray for one hour! She will be so happy. Am not saying you are trying to impress her but that act alone can shoot up her confidence in you.

A man is actually the Priest of his house. However, some men are not living up to that role. That's actually running away from responsibility. Anyway, a lot of men don't even know they are Priest, so that's a discourse for another day. So watch it! Before you criticize that Pastor or Imam or whoever, how Priestly have you been in your own home? Food for thought.

Let men begin to pray for men all over the world. Men need God more than ever. We need God's touch, His healing, His power in our lives. Drugs can't give you that peace. More Money can't give you that. More girls can't give you that. There is a void that will always be there that only His presence can fill. That is gotten in Prayers. When men pray...

Did you know that it was God Himself that decided to make the woman for Adam? Notice, it wasn't Adam that complained that he was all alone or that he needed help with the garden work. It was God that saw the need in Adam's life and went ahead to solve that need. What this implies is that, when you are in constant communion with your heavenly Father, He brings into your life, what you need to fulfill your life's assignment progressively!
When Men Pray...
Are you ready to Pray now?
When Men Pray...
Let Men Pray...
Men are praying...
Men Pray!!!

PURPOSE, PURSUITS & PRODUCTS

Purpose precedes Pursuits and your pursuits is what generates results. However, you must get the order right, otherwise you will be wasting your time and energy with nothing tangible to show for it including unfulfillment.
Many men are pursuing what they haven't purposed. Just following crowd dynamics. Settle down first to know your purpose before you begin, then pursue it with all your might.
As a man,your Purpose Machinery,which is your mind,must be in tune with God before your pursuits can be truly productive.
In this year of #STANDOUT,may your pursuits make you STANDOUT!
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THE MAN, HIS MISSION & MONEY There are 4 kinds of men on the earth today, find out which group you belong and do something about it: 1.Man on a Mission without Money 2.Man with Money but having no Mission 3.Man wihout Money and without a Mission 4.Man with Money and a Mission There is what to do irrespective of what group you belong. For those in group 1.Man on a Mission without Money Find a way to break even. You can't go far with your mission without money. However, you don't have to be the one to raise all the money you need to fulfill your mission,but you must have money to solve the most BASIC needs of human existence -Food,Clothing &Shelter. You can then think straight in raising funds from other sources to sort you mission from level to levels 2.Man with Money but having no Mission If you are in this group, this is a misery but has a solution. You need to capture your life mission otherwise 2 things willbe a constant feature in your life. These are A) Money will be what controls you. You remain a servant to money.It is the amount of money you have that determines your mood, your sense of control,your sense of identity. This is an aberration. B). If you do get to the end of your life, it will be one of regret. You would have pierced your soul with many arrows and regrets of things you know you shouldn't have done. Therefore in essence you need to seek for information that can help you capture your life's purpose. Its so vital. 3.Man wihout Money and without a Mission Ummmm! This is double tragedy but. A solvable problem. However, the first place to start from is to capture your life's mission first. Not money first. See #2 above,you will understand why. When you capture your life's mission, then begin to seek money that can meet your life's basic needs, so you can be able to think clearly of ways to raise money for fulfilling the great aspects of your mission level by level. 4.Man with Money and a Mission Wow! This is the ideal place to be.However, it has its traps. The first is to constantly fight off a sense of having arrived. Until you leave planet earth, there is no arrival point. Its from glory to glory. So keep dreaming on in your life's mission. The next trap to avoid is dream distractors. They will keep poppong up from time to time. This. Is why you need to craft a mission statement to keep you on track all the time. The next trap to avoid is the Pride of life. This is because, when you see many people who don't know their mission or who don't even have money, you may tend to fill as if you are better that other men. This is a fallacy and a mindset to utterly avoid at all cost. Always look unto God and keep an humble heart and very importantly... Keep an humble heart! #StandOut2015 #TakeCharge2015 #ManOfHonour2015 Follow me on twitter @dredugbo

SOLVING THE 'SEE-FINISH' SYNDROME- Staying Powerful In A Relationship

Recognizing the difference between each gender is fundamental to improving the male-female relationship. Many a time, while courting or dating a lady, most men are usually conscious of this difference. However, after getting the lady's attention, after a while, it becomes a problem to maintain that initial stance.

WHY DO SOME MARRIAGES TURN SOUR?
Why do some marriages turn sour? Over-familiarity is one reason why most marriages eventually turn sour. That initial spark and romantic energy seems to disappear over time. Why is this so? I believe one of the reasons is "over-familiarity". We become so familiar with each other and consequently lose regard and respect for one another. The guy is no longer caring, while the woman is no longer respectful. The "See-finish Syndrome" takes root. So what happens thereafter? Things fall apart, and as Chinua Achebe, in his novel says,
" ...the center cannot hold".
Over-familiarity is at the root of most marital failure.

HOW DO WE SOLVE THE OVER-FAMILIARITY PROBLEM
A lot of people have settled for divorce as a solution to marital relationship breakdown. I don't think that's the best option. At the root of over-familiarity is a core problem. Do you know what it is? It's  the loss of consciousness of the difference between males and females. Yes , you heard me right! Many married folks lose that consciousness and this eventually leads to what some have come to call "irreconcilable differences". The question is, are there truly any differences that are irreconcilable between two persons who were love birds in the early times?

ARE THERE REALLY DIFFERENCES THAT ARE IRRECONCILABLE?
I have seen and heard of a good number of marriages that were headed for the rocks but somehow, somewhere, the disaster was averted. What was the magic that saved it? Some of those marriages are today, shining examples and inspiration to others. In fact, if you were told that some of these couples had " irreconcilable differences" at a time, an irreconcilable argument could even break out between you and the person that told you!

BACK TO THE BASICS -  APPRECIATING THE MALE-FEMALE DIFFERENCE
Man is a tripartite being. Man is a spirit, he has a soul and he lives in a body. Our body is the only part visible to our eyes and we thereby confine ourselves only to what we see. However, beyond what we see, are our spirit and souls.
The only part that is similar to both males and females is the spirit. The spirit of man is the real man. Man is a spirit. However, in terms of our physical bodies, there are 2 kinds of man, the male-man and the female-man.

TO BE CONTINUED ...

FINDING YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE

PURPOSE - Purpose is the INTENT of a thing. In other words, it is the reason behind an action.
"Why am i here?" is the question that unlocks the human purpose. Your life has an overall destination and every action you take ought to move you in that direction. However, if you do not have your purpose well defined within you, you may end up jumping all around the place with no positive progress to show for all your activities.

Purpose is Key to Producing Results
You don't just go about trying your hands on one thing after the other. Your activities should flow from a well defined purpose. Every great achiever first took time to spell out his purpose before he set out to pursue his dream. That's the order. The greatest leader of all time,Jesus, had this said about him, "for this PURPOSE..."

Purpose precedes Pursuit and your pursuits is what generates results. Many men are pursuing what they haven't purposed. They live day in, day out, just following crowd dynamics.
As a man, God has put your Purpose within your heart. However, you need to take time to look within you and draw it out. You need to look back, examine your life, and see the patterns of your life that show you your stenghts. Sometimes for some people, it just dawns on them what their life purpose is as they keep introspecting.
We will see more about finding purpose.
Have a great day!

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