POWER OF POSITIVE INFLUENCE

Some people do not know how to build their influence positively so that those around them can enjoy their presence instead of enduring their presence.

In today's podcast learn the ropes of creating positive influence.
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JOINTLY CREATING MONSTERS Part 1

I have refused to get involved in the battle of the sexes as my years of engagement reveals many men and women are dysfunctional,so it's hypocrisy to point fingers.

Parenting, social constructs,gender norms, culture,media etc are all guilty of telling 4 year olds boys to "be a man", "man up", "suck it up", "real men don't cry" etc.

So we create emotionless, angry , aggressive, wild men who will inflict horrendous pain on the society they live in.

When we define love as weakness to boys,we shut down their capacity to connect with themselves and the world around them.we create emotionally deficient men who would abuse women eventually.

It is humanly impossible to shut down your emotions which causes a  disconnect between your heart and your head and not have problems relating with people.

If it is weakness and feminine to care,emphathise,cry, and show affection then how do women expect men to manufacture these traits in our interface with them?

Mothers everywhere I go have admitted to also saying "be a man and real men don't cry to their sons",so why are men being judged for " who we created.

Both sides are guilty of raising the quality of men we have in our world today, the earlier we stop trading blames and start the process of overhauling the better for us all.

Remember our daughters will have to coexist with the quality of men our society produced,so if we love our daughters,we will raise mature and responsible men.

Selah

[Source: @dejiirawo]

HOW TO START YOUR LIFE AFRESH

Postponing life until some event happens is one of the commonest traps anyone can fall into. We think, "When I'm married I'll do this…" or, "After I get married then I'll finally be happy…" But marriage may be farther off than we think, and for some of us, we conclude that when we find that big job, earn more money, buy more things or just indulge in one thing or the other, then we will really be happy. This attitude is called “postponing your life”. Postponing life can start as a harmless wish but can turn into a self-limiting habit that keeps you from becoming the person God wants you to be.

While postponing your social life can be unhealthy, postponing your eternal life can be downright deadly. Millions of single people believe they're entitled to their fun, which involves sex before marriage, alcohol, drugs, and anything else that is popular at the particular time. They promise to settle down later, postponing the time when they will deal with God.

If you have been putting off the invitation of Jesus Christ, now is the time to decide where you will spend the rest of eternity. Don't postpone it any longer. The Bible is unmistakably clear: You can't get to heaven by doing good deeds, and you can't get there by being a good person. The only way is through accepting Christ as your saviour. The choice is up to you. Are you ready to stop postponing your life and start living it? Whatever you decide, you only need to remember that it is either you live your life or someone else will do it for you.

[Source:Ben & Kay Akhigbe II]

MEN OF HONOUR MEETS IN NOVEMBER

It will be an uncommon meeting this Saturday 14th November, 2015, as Life Coach, Mentor and Founder of Men of Honour, Rev Benson Akhigbe II will be sharing with men key principles for transforming our world as men. 
This will be a life impacting meeting following loads of fresh insight gleaned during the CURE CONFERENCE 2015 held in October last month.
Kindly share and invite your male friends. It's a men only event, men who are 18 Years and above. Don't miss it!
Venue is #5 Oregbeni Crescent, G.R.A. Benin City, Edo State.
Admission is Free.
For further enquiries call or SMS 08060780297