Showing posts with label Real men. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Real men. Show all posts

Monday, 8 May 2017

A CONFERENCE JUST FOR MEN

If you are a man, don't miss this conference for anything. It will help sharpen your edge as a man. Kindly share this information with as many males as you can.
Hear what a leading men's technocrat, Deji Irawo, has to say below:
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Interestingly many women have been wired to seek "confidence" as a very attractive quality in men.I very much agree that confidence is a great virtue that mature men should have but we need to look at that word carefully and how it relates to men.

So men have grown to ensure that they put up a confident outlook at "all times" so as not to appear weak especially when relating with women.

Many women say they desire an emotionally intimate relationship with males but feel put off if the "man" shows emotion or cries in the process,then they tell him to "man up",which means to proove he is masculine and not weak.

Asides from the fact that when you tell a man to man up,he might never totally open up to you again.The real conversation is ,how did society/culture programme women to be attracted to that "Macho" expression we call confidence?

Can i humbly submit that from my interface with men that the problem is with the misunderstanding of the word "confidence". Confidence in men is not the absence of fear or vulnerability like we have been trained to think, it's accepting the reality on ground and deciding to keep moving inspite of the obvious reality.

What we have done is to wrongly​ train men to deny the pain/feeling in the bid to appear "confident"This leads to the suppression of inner realities and the subsequent implosion men suffer.Confidence is the inner capacity to get up and go despite the obvious pain we feel.

Join us for 4 days of capacity development for men at the kingdom men network conference, kindly invite a man around you.

[Source: @dejiirawo]

Sunday, 31 July 2016

HOW TO BE A MAN

Being male is a matter of birth, being a man is a matter of choice. You can't afford to miss this one day Men Intensive program featuring leading Male Technocrat, Deji Irawo, come 13th of August, 2016.
Hope to see you there!

Tuesday, 26 July 2016

STAND OUT, NOT GIVING IN

Do you realize you were born to be an example of goodness? A lot of people are caught up with the activities of daily living that they are so unconscious of this fact. This is why it is so vital to spend some minutes everyday to meditate, which helps to build the right consciousness into your being. This is because, what you are not conscious of, you are unlikely to take action on. In this piece below, you will find out why you should strive to be an example of good things.
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The most important thing in your life as a Christian is your salvation. There’s no worldly accomplishment that can compare to it. Everything else you do; all the glory in this world without your salvation is nothing. Therefore, prize it above everything else.

Our primary reason for preaching the Gospel— doing all we do to help others find their salvation—is our salvation. Sadly, there’re people who, after labouring and doing so much for the Gospel, lost their salvation because they went out of the way. They allowed some misguided people lure them away from the Word, and soon, they began to fight for things of this world and of the flesh. Your salvation is the most important thing; don’t trade it for anything.

If a man loses his salvation, he loses everything, regardless of how many conferences he may have attended or how many people he may have led to Christ. Protect your salvation. Keep it, and don’t allow anyone or anything destroy it. Don’t lead yourself astray, and don’t give anyone that opportunity. There’re hawks, wolves in the church who won’t spare the flock, and will for personal gain, do just anything to lead you in their pernicious ways.

Never forget that when you came to Christ, you came alone. God called you alone; just the same way the Bible tells us He called Abraham alone (Isaiah 51:2). That you have received Christ isn’t enough; that’s only the beginning. You must keep building yourself in Him, and growing in, and by His Word.
[Source: Chris Oyakhilome]
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Now if you haven't given your life to Jesus Christ, it's time you do so. God is near you, waiting for you to accept His offer of salvation. Maybe you were a good Christian but somewhere along the line, you got derailed, well there is still hope for you. There is always hope for you as long as you have the breath of life. Give God your life. Accept the sacrifice if His Son, Jesus Christ today.