Well this was written by a lady. I think its a good piece that should get read by guys and girls alike. Enjoy it and be wise thereafter!
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So sisters...
What exactly are we bringing to the table?
A big booty? A Perfectly sculpted brows? A shape to die for? A full head of Brazilian hair? A penchant for the latest songs and
dance steps? A group of empty and vacuous brained friends?
Is that all?
What exactly is he going to find when he knocks on your head? All the episodes of Zee World, Telemundo, Tinsel and Africa
Magic all recorded in perfect sequence? Empire nko? Every soundtrack, every character dissected to a tee?
Do you know anything about the New World Order? Neo-colonialism? Your own home politics? What's happening in
Ghana, The Gambia, Gabon? Do you even know something about anything remotely connected to intelligent discourse?
When last did you read a book? No not Hints. Not Genevieve. Not Arise. A book. You know that sort that has printed pages
in between covers and no pictures just words? Oh they give you a headache?
What exactly will bring a man your way and keep him? Do you have a source of income? A skill? Financial intelligence or you are a walking ATM seeker?
Do you always ask ask ask and not
work work work?
Do you know how to cook? Yes cook. Cook for yourself at least not because you want to keep a man but because you ought to take better care of what you feed your body?
Do you know the way to the kitchen or are you a Mr Biggs, Dominoes or KFC shareholder. Never mind the bigger swankier restaurants.
Tell me what exactly are you bringing to the table? There are times he would need a real woman to share his worries with and your miniskirts and long lashes won't bring
anything to that table.
Most of us tend to spend so much on
appearances trying to look sexy as hell forgetting he will not be horny forever! There would be days when he would need
your managerial qualities, but you're only used to being lavish;
SLAY MAMA!
Don't spend all your days making up and turning up anywhere a DJ takes his speakers to. Build yourself. Learn and practice things that can value to your life,that is the real sexy!
We need responsible mothers for our unborn children, not just SLAY QUEENS!
This is 2017. Entitlement died on December 26th and was buried on December 31st 2016. Wise up.
This is 2017... the year of the strong woman. Say it. Mean it.
Believe it. Be it!
Just 4 men is a blog created to inspire men ( and the women who love them! )to wholesome, purposeful and life fulfilling living.
Wednesday, 18 January 2017
READ THIS BEFORE YOU MARRY
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