What is the relationship between Men, Money and their Emotions? A lot of us guys do not know there is a link. The crux of the matter is that understanding the relationship is key to being healthy in your self image and in having a balanced approach to financial management. This Thursday on EBS TV on Mental Health for Men with Dr Edugbo, we will be building on the topic that we started 2 weeks ago titled Men, Money & Emotions.
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Wednesday, 24 February 2016
UNDERSTANDING MEN, MONEY & EMOTIONS 2.0
Friday, 12 February 2016
ARE YOU CONNECTING RIGHT?
"Iron sharpens iron. So, look for the kind of person that sharpens you. Beware who you call your friend. Friendship is by choice and not by force. And friendship is not for fun. In the late 70's and early 80's, when believers met each other, their mode of greeting was, 'How are you,brother? Have you heard about the Welsh revival? Did you read about Evan Roberts? I saw something in 'Herald of His Coming' that just shook me. I read something about Smith Wigglesworth. Did you hear that John Hyde stained the walls of his room with the breath of his prayer? I read that Maria Woodworth Ether was approaching a place to preach and fifty miles from the place where she was, people were falling under the anointing..."
Those were the kinds of things we said to each other. When you heard it, it set you ablaze. Your friend might say to you, 'When I read that, I locked up myself for ten hours. I did not come out'. And you look at him, 'You said how many hours? I will see you later!' You just go into the room and lock yourself up: 'What! What am I doing with my life?' And you go on and on. That was how we sharpened each other in those days. Iron sharpeneth iron! We learned of William Booth of the Salvation Army. We learned of Charles G. Finney riding a horse through town and everyone was crying for his or her sins... We read of D.L Moody: They said, 'God is looking for a man to use, and he is looking for a man that will not care who takes the glory.' D.L. Moody, a shoe maker, said, 'By the grace of God, I will be that man'... When you read that, it sets you on fire. And if you heard it from someone who read it from somewhere and shared it with you, you would be sharpened. That was how we sharpened each other. Today,it is different. When two pastors meet, you hear things like, 'Pastor, how is the church building? Have you finished it now? I like this neck tie of yours; where did you buy it from? This wristwatch is powerful! Who helped you to get this car? Can you assist me to get the car also? I
like it! Your suit is powerful. Is it ready-made or someone sewed it? Who is your barber? I like the way you cut your hair.' These the vanities believers discuss these days - things of no eternal consequences. It is very rare before you can come into the presence of a servant of God and leave edified. We rarely hear that a person went to see a man of God, a real man of God and left there challenged, with his soul set on fire. It is very very rare. My heart yearns for those days... A brother would read a book that changed his life and he would share the inspiration: Have you seen Smith Wigglesworth 'Apostle of Faith'? You need to read it. John G. Lake's 'Adventure in God'? You need to read it. Leonard Ravenhill's 'Why Revival Tarries'? 'Sodom had no Bible'? What about E.M. Bounds 'The Power of Prayer'? Charles Spurgeons 'His Power in Us'? E.W Kenyon's 'Two Kinds of Faith'?, A.W Tozer's 'In Pursuit of God'? Oswald J. Smiths 'The Man God
Uses'? Those were qualitative materials that we advertised and used to change our lives... Who is it that is sharpening you? Who are the people around you sharpening your life? Please, watch your company. Some pastors had more fire until they entered the circle of friends they are in today. Watch the persons you call friends. Iron sharpens iron. Nothing sharpens iron like iron."
[ Courtesy: Dr. Paul Enenche.]
OVERCOME YOUR TODAY!
You cannot determine a man's future by his present. It is the quality of your dreams and the quantum efforts of your determination that determines where you wind up. Forget the mocking and spites of men towards you today.
What do you see? How do you SEE yourself get at it? What are you DOING day by day to get you there?
#SettleDownAndWorkYourDreams
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Sunday, 7 February 2016
SHUO! NA WETIN CONCERN YOU?
If a friend picks offence at you for trying to correct him, the question that should readily come to your mind are:
1. "why did d person pick offence?";
2. Was the correction done at the wrong timing?
3. Could the manner in which the correction was being done, a rash one?
4. Could it be that the person perceived the corrector to be unqualified to give the correction?
5. Could it be the person being corrected already has an uncorrectable disposition? Which therefore means the corrector wasn't discerning enough or perhaps didn't see the telltale signs?
We need to rethink these things.
Well even Jesus said even that if a prophet resurrected from dead to go correct people, dem no go hear.
My broda, my sista, u can only do your best o. Leave the rest so u fit rest o😄😄😄
Friday, 5 February 2016
HOW TO BREAKFORTH
HOW TO BREAKFORTH
To break forth from where you are to new levels, requires input of new information. There is no better way than to prepare in advance for what you expect to perform in or for the level you want to operate at.
Even scriptures says it that "Study to show yourself approved, a workman...".
That means without adequate study, a workman can be put to shame. You must put effort in becoming better than yesterday. As E.W. Kenyon puts it " struggle to improve". Another person said the best way to predict the future is to create it.
Many times, this may require going for materials or trainings at the expense of perhaps certain pressing personal needs. You need to prioritize. In fact, especially at the early stages, you may need to even borrow to buy or pay for that information. However, if you know what you are doing you will Arrive. For surely... "there is an END,and your expectation shall not be cut off"
May you soon become the Next Oga At The Top! And if you are already an Oga at The Top, then my prayer for you is that, may you keep Remaining an Oga At The Top and even become THE Oga Kpatakpata At TheTop!
Have a blessed weekend!
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